Forever And For Always…?!!
January 10th 2005 by Sou in Crazy, Music, PersonalSo when somebody says “I’ll love you forever and for always”, what’s the first thing that comes to mind (No, i don’t mean the song by Shania Twain!!) I mean, do you ever think–forever?! for always?!! HOW?!
How can a person promise to love another person the same way FOREVER?! I think it’s impossible! If it was possible, then divorce or breaking up would’ve never existed, am i right?!
But hang on, i don’t want to sound biased…i mean, maybe somewhere out there are couples that will be together forever and for always…well i wish them good luck, and for all of you hopeless romantics out there, ur time will come…
Time to sign off, ta ta for now :*
It’s possible. They just both have to be overly obssessed with each other right from the very beginning.
Or not.
Though I know this one girl that doesn’t believe in love.
believe it or not we are able to fall inlove a hundred times, if you let go of the idealistic thought of only falling inove truely once, there is no such thing as falling inlove truely, just differently.
The way we love changes as we evolove, so out ability to love becomes more more more more, oh hell just different! ofcaurse eachtime you fall inlove one should express that feeling even if it is thought to be forever because it is the now that matters. Later well later you will fall inlove again and say something else that will equaly satisfy the intensity of your new feeling.
Think of it that way, you will end up loving alot of poeple and there is no better way to live that be surrounded by love no? Also you will get to find out the limitlisness of your ability to reach hightened emotions as you grow older and wiser.
No regrets
If it smells like bullshit
If it looks like bullshit
If it sound like bullshit….
It probably is bullshit.
Sorry, but “I’ll love you forever and for always” sounds like something you either hear in a country song or read on a Hallmark card.
- Your synical, negative, jaded friend.
I see forever as one lifetime out of several lifetimes that I go through in my journey through time. So I feel that if you say you love someone for one lifetime then you are committed to love that someone for as long as you live. In that one lifetime, you do not have to love that same person the same way. We travel through life in phases. I loved my boyfriend in a certain way and when he became my husband and the father of our children, the love became less self-centred and less revolving around ourselves, our likes and dislikes. As we go through life together while our kids are growing up and going through different phases of their lives, we discover aspects of ourselves that will either deepen our love for each other or cause us to drift apart. But the promise of a lifetime when you say you will love someone forever is something you should keep. Unless the other party is abusive, a scoundrel, a cheat, a criminal, there is no excuse to let the relationship deteriorate to the point of no return. In other words, a forever-type of relationship is something we have to work at.Just my view from my experiences of loving one man almost all my life. The grass always seems to be greener on the other side offering more excitement and fun. But usually, once you get there, the other side suddenly looks better. Well, this is just another view of love. Cheers!
The thing about forever is that it’s an infinite amount of time. The only thing you can show about loving someone for is that it is possible to NOT love someone forever. There is no way to show that loving them forever IS possible. So I say, sure why not? Besides, I love the idea.I wanna feel that way about someone someday.
Davey: She doesn’t believe in love?! Eek!! HOW?!!
Beatnik: Ever wondered how love is like a cycle? Fall in, fall out, fall in again, fall out again?! *sigh* It’s a never ending cycle…
Amerab: WELCOME, WELCOME!! First comment here and it’s from the heart! I’m glad! hehe, and you’re right Amerab, it is from a country song ‘Forever and For Always’ by Shania Twain!! I heard it, and it ticked me off! I mean, ‘forever and for always’ who the hell is she kidding?! I mean, there is no ‘i’ll love you forever’…i dunno, it just confuses and pisses me off…
“If it smells like bullshit
If it looks like bullshit
If it sound like bullshit….
It probably is bullshit.”Words of wisdom i’ll cherish them forever!! hehe ;)
Aquarius: “In other words, a forever-type of relationship is something we have to work at” Ya, i guess that makes sense, it’s a logical theory. I guess you’re living proof of ‘Forever & For Always’ Choy! God Bless…
Camel: Feel that way about Mr. Firefighter?! ;) hehehe, well it’s all fate–who knows, right?
Being in love forever - My Parents- sometimes its real gross sometimes its cute (coz they are my PARENTS!!)
Falling in love and out and in and out - me !!! prolly just infatuations ,,, but it feels like the real thing all the time (hehehehe)..once u love someone no matter what u always love them ,,,ex-bf..if u meet up u obviously remember the good times and if he is in trouble u will def help out coz u “love” him not so passionately like before bt its always there.
Now if the guy was a player and all that ,,, its a diff story.
Cheers
Al :)
Have you ever seen/heard any Cheech & Chong? They are hilarious - around in the 70’s. There is a whole skit they do about 2 eskimos walking along and they come across a pile of what looks like dogshit.
Dominant Eskimo: What dat?
Eskimo2: Looks like dogshit.
DE: Smell.
E2: I’m not gonna smell it. YOU smell it.
DE: I’m not gonna smell it.
E2: (smells) hmmm… smells like dogshit.
DE: Taste!
E2: Huh?
DE: TAAAAASTE!!!
E2: (tastes). Yup. Tastes like dogshit.
DE: Hmmm. Probably is dogshit. Lets go eat.