C’est La Vie
February 25th 2006 by Sou in PersonalI couldn’t believe she said those things about me! I don’t care if she tells the whole world that I was “manipulative” or “abusive” because I know the truth; it was really her and everyone who knows her, will agree.
It’s just a shame that after this time she’s bad mouthing me. She could’ve just moved on with life, she didn’t really have to go and tell the whole world lies so that they would feel sorry for her. Yet again, that’s a typical move; just goes to prove that she’s the manipultive one.
I won’t bad mouth her, since that isn’t my nature. I’ll just suffice by saying that karma’s going to get her back. It will and I’m sure of it.
well, i’m not sure why someone would do that to a person like you, but yes, people are sometimes not what they seem…i’m sorry this happened, but you are handling this very maturely, so good for you. i hope this blows over soon, take care.
Sou, honey, it happens…Ignore her darling. Ignorance will kill someone like that craving attention and will do you good at the same time. I’ve been there before, people talking behind my back who I had thought were once friends. You just learn and move on. Cheer up :)
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Hope you get through this gurl:( , You are strong, I agree with ”day dreamer ” the silence treatement is the best way .
Been there, done that!
I know it hurts when a person who thought is your close friend, will bad mouth you, especially behind your back.
It happened it to me, and I made it clear to that person that he was not worth ANYTHING for me to make it a change or make it better.
I was like…”Good Riddance”, and less baggage in my life :)
you will get through this…cause you deserve the best :)
Ar, what goes around, comes around. People like that doesn’t deserve your attention, or emotions. I feel sad for this to happen, but at least now you know she wasn’t a very good friend. Gosh, some people are so dumb!
Hope you’ll be able to get over this soon!
Love,
Sorry to hear about what happened between you and your friend. It’s just bad,eh? We never really know what kind of people are the ones around us until something happens.
5atwaaaaaaLLiiiiiiii *hugs*
as i asked blasha,
Face your Friend :/ alone, see what she got to say.
People sometimes end up losing their best friends becuse of mesunderstanding :(….
Well…i think u know better than me that life is not what u always expect ya sue… Just smile and think “Even this, will pass” so think of the bright side of the whole issue and remember that you won;t have to know her again..
cheers,
KoFta{always on fire;)}
I miss you Sou!
I know how you’re feeling (at least, I think I do) - I went through the same thing a few months ago. I wrote those friends off and moved on. I’ve made new friends, and I’m *much* happier now.
On the other hand, if you guys can sort it out then you know your friendship is real.
Keep your head up..you know who is good and whos not!
Positive thinking..look at what you have and not what you dont have..and you’ve got me at least! ;-) SMILE
[...] This is the first time I’ve talked about it publicly…I don’t feel any regret nor sorrow that M is my “former” best friend. It’s almost been a year since we stopped talking and I’ve moved on since day one, deep down inside I know it was the right decision. I don’t hold any grudges towards her, our friendship was good while it lasted, but people change. Who knows, maybe Karma will go gentle on her…maybe. [...]