An Explanation? | January 4th 2005
I started writing this post at 6am this morning, but saved it as a draft, felt too tired to finish it off, lazy lil moi :p
I can’t sleep…it’s 6am!! My body neeeeds to sleep, but my brain’s thinking of a billion things…I’m sooo glad laptops were invented! using a laptop makes mylife easier–it means that i don’t have to get out of bed, switch on my PC, sit on the hardest chair ever and type away. With a laptop i get to do all of that in the comfort of my own bed (without the getting up and sitting on a hard chair bit!!) I’ve got the t.v. on, I’m watching ‘Sweet Charity’ one of my favourite films–I love that film, simply love it *sigh*
If ya’ll are wondering what the hell i was on about with ‘Just Not Into That You’, well i heard it wen i was watching Oprah yesterday (we all know how much i love Oprah!!!) Greg Behrendt was the guest on the show, author of ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’. He explains men’s attitudes towards relationships, and tries to help women realise if they’re wasting their time with the person they’re with (also how to find the right one, that’s actually “into her”) a lot of tears were shed on yesterday’s show after Behrendt “analysed” some women’s love lives. You know what struck me as odd–each relationship analysed, he started by saying “he’s just not that into you” I mean are men that yucky? Do they all lie about the way they really feel so that they wouldn’t hurt a woman’s feelings?! Tell me this, when a man says “it’s not you, it’s me” they’re lying, aren’t they?! Well i think they are, actually i’m sure they are!!! The excuse behind the lie, is that they don’t want to hurt our itsy bitsy feelings! JUST TELL US, WE’LL TAKE IT LIKE A MAN!!! hang on, who am i kidding–ok, let’s forget the “take it like a man bit” because we probably won’t–well we’ll look like we took it well and moved on, but really we’re planning ways to torture you–yes, yes we are!! So where was i, o yes..no hang on, i’m lost, lemme just re-read what i wrote..OK, the “it’s not you, it’s me” tactic..you know what–i’m babbling, right? ya, i figured–i’ll go get some juice and come baq…
Okey dokey, i’m baq, alive and kicking–erm, i’m not actually kicking but..o watever…
Pretty pathetic how men try to justify their excuses–and it’s pretty pathetic how women buy it all–omg, i’m pathetic :S yes, i’m confessing, i am patetic *sigh* we’re not perfect…
You know, i’m going to stop here…how about u tell me what you think of the ‘He’s just not that into you” topic! Time to sign off, ta ta for now :*